Ladies' CU-SeeMe Defense Page
This page is a bit long. If you want a good, quick overview, Rollo has a great page of tips.
(Some of these techniques can also be used for persistant DC requests and obnoxious public chat)
Note 2: What is obnoxious chat? Everyone's answer to this will be different. I personally find "where from?" to be the lamest excuse for conversation I have ever seen. But the more normal examples of obnoxious chat would be the crude, graphic descriptions of testosterone induced requests. To be fair to the men, remember, there are some women who like and encourage what others would call obnoxious chat. If you are a gentleman looking for help in knowing what to say to who, try this guideline.
If you would like to read a quote from Joseph Campbell that helped me be comfortable with my seemingly paranoid choices, you can click here.
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