What is Romance?
Romance, to me, isn't something you do only on special occasions, but something you do every day. I am not saying anything against that, once a year, valentine candlelight dinner,or special birthday, evening out, I think they are wonderful, but to really, keep, that fire burning, I think it needs more than that. And its not just something that women are supposed to do, men should too. "IT TAKES TWO, TO KEEP THE SPARK, IGNITED"
I am talking about the little things....a moonlight stroll, holding hands , or arms wrapped around each other... a hand caressing a cheek, or sending, a signal, only known to each other, across a crowded room, or blowing a kiss...or mouthing something, like "I want you", or sitting next to each other while watching tv, running your fingers through their hair or giving a foot massage. Even at the park with the kids, take the time, while you are sitting on the bench watching them, play, to softly tell each other something, playful, and sexy.
Send them to work with a smile on their face, and you on their mind and them on yours :) Tuck a note, (with, sweet sentiments or promises of things to come) in a briefcase, lunch, or pocketbook, or even on a pillow, what a nice way to wake up, or to go to sleep! :)
Of course there, are always the old stand-bys, that work well, too... a single rose, or putting the cd player on, and slow dance :) or a candlelight dinner at home,(kids sleeping over grandma's :) and as an unexpected, surprise, eating it, in something sexy, or even better, nothing at all!
Ok...I know what you are thinking. I work all day
when I get home, I am tired. I have chores to do, children to attend to, etc...Of course you are :)
I am not claiming or pretending to be, an expert, in the art of romance. The only knowledge I have, is based on my 25 years, of marriage experience. It has never failed me yet :)
The most important things to remember are:
ROMANCE DOES NOT BEGIN IN THE BEDROOM (of course it almost, always ends up there :)
LOVE AND ROMANCE LINKS
Incurable Romantix - Love and Romance Master Page