Free  Spells
Make Love Leave

TO RID YOURSELF OF AN UNWANTED LOVER
Some people are wooed by persistent would-be lovers, those who won't take no for an
answer and who won't leave them alone. This is the ideal spell for such a situation.
It should be done during the waning cycle of the Moon.
Have a roaring fire going, then go outside and pick up two handfuls of dry vervain leaves
(you can place them on the ground ahead of time, if necessary.)
As you pick them up, shout out the name of the one you wish to be rid of.
Turn and go into the house (or cross to the fire if this is all done out in the open)
and fling leaves onto the fire with the words:
Here is my pain;
Take it and soar.
Depart from me now
And offend me no more.
Do this for three nights in a row. You will hear no more from the unwanted ones.

TO GET SOMEONE OUT OF YOUR LIFE
This ritual is used to get someone out of your life that you just can't seem to get away from.
You'll need: a string of hemp a small dish
a red, black, gray or black candle with the wick removed
a cut burnt through to the candle's center.
Slip the hemp through the crevice in the candle, and, holding both ends of the string with one hand.
Begin to burn through the center of the wax, where the crevice starts.
Channel energy into the candle based on what negative things the source has given or done to you.
Then, as the wax cascades into two pieces and the hemp burns through, visualize yourself
and the other source like the wax. Two separate bodies.
A regular circle needs to be cast for this ritual, and you have to make sure you
want no ties with this person again when the ritual's through.

BANISHMENT SPELL
This is a spell for love gone wrong, for ending a personal, family or business
relationship that you no longer wish to be in.
It is a fire spell. To work it, gather herbs of protection and an image of the person
(photograph, poppet, etc.)
Something written in their own hand, a lock of hair, a piece of clothing or a personal
object will also do.
Put everything into a fireproof container - iron cauldron, marble mortar, whatever -
and set fire to it as you perform the spell.
It should make a very satisfactory blaze that reduces to ashes.
The ashes can be buried or washed down a drain.
Flush them down a toilet if you are very angry.
Dispose of all the objects that connect you to the person: gifts, letters, photographs, etc.
It is especially important to get rid of jewelry. Move house if you have to.
Be careful with this spell. It's permanent, so don't use it unless you really mean forever.
By the crimson and the gold
by basilisk and bloodstone
by the garlic in the fields
by the poppies and what they yield
invisibly I make my shield
to detect thee and deflect thee
and keep thy harm from me.
By dragon's blood and salamanders
by horses when their hooves strike sparks
by the dragon breathing flames
from the Book of Life I erase thy names
I cut the cords and unlock the chains
I sever all the ties by which we were bound
and with impenetrable walls myself I surround
against thy power and its source
against thy evil and its source
Vesta, Pele, Lilith
Kali Kali Kali
I banish thee forever from me
and any harm from thee to me
doubles back and tables turned
thou shalt by thyself be burned
Lilith, Vesta, Pele
Kali Ma Kali Ma
by the power of three times three
I banish thee, I banish thee, I banish thee
I am set free So mote it be!

TO END UNWANTED ROMANTIC FEELINGS
Focus your thoughts on the person you want to no longer have feelings for.
Think of all the reasons of yours & traits of theirs that you can, to back up your decision.
Write this person's name on a small slip of paper.
Cross out the name with deliberation. Say:
You no longer hold a special place in my heart.
You are not the right person for me.
I will bury my feelings for you here & make a fresh start.
Bury this bit of paper & all your feelings about this person outside under a waning moon.

TO MAKE A LOVER LEAVE
The following is an effective and simple spell to encourage the end of a relationship
if you are no longer interested in the person as a lover.
a black candle a white candle salt, water dragon's blood incense
and a picture of the person you wish to end the relationship with.
It also helps if you have something of theirs (a ring, watch, etc. that they will wear at a later
time, and wear often).
Arrange all these items on a table or altar somewhere quiet that you will not be disturbed.
Write your name and his side by side on a piece of paper.
Before casting this spell, it is important that you realize the meaning behind the various things involved.
Each item represents something, and all four elements (earth, air, fire and water) are also represented.
(1) The white candle represents good will, as you do not wish the person any harm,
you are just no longer interested in a lover's relationship with them.
(2) The black candle represents 'ending' or 'finality'.
This signifies the ending of the relationship as it currently is.
** Both candles represent the element of fire.
The dragon's blood incense represents the element air.
The bowl of water represents the element of water.
The salt sprinkled around your table represents the element of earth.
The picture and personal items from the person help you to concentrate on the person,
and the item that they might wear later will further infuse them with the power of the spell.
To cast the spell:
Light the candles and incense, going around the table from North to West to South to East
(this represents diminishment or decrease, and you wish to decrease the love binding you
and your boyfriend/girlfriend.)
Cast a circle, paying tribute to the lord/lady/dragon/guardian of each of the watchtowers,
again going from NWSE in direction.
Repeat the following chant 3 times, and on the third time tear the paper that you've written
your names on in half.
"O fire and flame of candle dark, I call your power to free his/her heart.
As I tear this paper with our names inscribed, separate his/her (name) love from me apart.
Bring to him/her not one ounce of charm, but fall him/her to another's charms.
Nevermore as lovers shall we two be, but forever in friendship may we meet.
As I will it, so mote it be."
Take the two pieces of paper with the names, and burn yours in the flame of the white
candle, and burn his/hers in the flame with the black candle - when they burn down far
enough that you can't hold them any longer, drop them in the bowl of water.
Ground the power and close the circle! This is very important. I usually do this by turning
my palms downward and saying
"Circle open, but not broken - power down, to the ground".
The spell is finished, except that you must allow both the white and black candles to
burn completely down(I like to use votive candles for this reason, so they don't have to burn so long).
If you like, you can take a small silk purse or felt bag and place the burnt pieces of paper, ashes
from the incense, salt from the table or altar's surface, and a few drops of water from the bowl in
the bag and keep it until you are certain the spell has worked. It also works well if you write the
spell on parchment paper, sprinkle some of the ashes on the paper then fold it so none of the
ashes can fall out and seal the fold of the paper with wax dripped from both candles.

SEPARATING YOURSELF FROM A PROBLEM/PERSON
Small issues can be handed in a magic circle, larger issues may need a full ritual.
Think carefully about which is best for the situation.
Needed : 2 black candles, a long black ribbon, black gloves, scissors,
cauldron containing small amounts of alcohol and a silver bell.
Cleanse and consecrate all the items, and dress the candles
(to send negative energy away from you), then light the candles.
Hold each end of the ribbon and name the ends.
Pass the silver bell over the alter several times until you feel you are in tune with the
Universal energies of love and peace. Anger is not a luxury afforded to you in the situation.
Put the black gloves on and say:
'I call upon the energies of Universal balance
I call upon the ancient energies of my people
I call upon the living energies of the Morrigan
Underworld and heaven
Land and sea, I awaken these energies unto me.
Witness now that I renounce and sever
Break bonds and connections with ________
By all the powers that are One Power
May the great sisters of Karma now weave anew
and separate me from you
As I will, so mote it be'
Cut the ribbon and say: 'It is so.'
Light the cauldron, and burn both the pieces of ribbon.

RITUAL FOR A SMOOTH BREAKUP
Have an object given to you or strongly associated with your partner,
something of yours that the partner strongly associates with you and some twine.
Tie a bit of the twine around each object, so there is some string distanced between the two.
Think about your relationship with this person, about the reasons you want to leave and how
you would like your life to be without this person.
At the most emotional peak, cut the twine between the two objects. Say:
With love did we begin this, and with love do I end this.
What connected us is no more, so mote it be!
Take each object and bury it far away from the other object, while you do this say,
"I plant your heart that new love and direction may grow!" So mote it be.

TO UNDO A LOVE SPELL
You need:
- Picture of both parties together or write the names on a piece of paper
- A burning dish
Cut the paper between the two of them and say:
As I cut their tie let the bond between them be broken
Burn both halves of the paper apart. Say:
As I burn the tie let the bond be ever severed. So Mote it be!
Thank the deities and dismiss the circle if you have used one.
At last, bury or scatter the ashes.

RID UNWANTED LOVER
Use a violet or black candle and chant these words:
Turn his heart away from me, but not so far he detests me so,
Undo the obsession (he/she) has with me, for I've no love to show.
Unrequited love isn't fair, it's better we're not together.
Make (him, her) find another love who'll stay by (his/her) side forever.

TO UNDO LOVE
This spell is to undo any love spells or natural love.
You need one each of green, orange and yellow candles, a rose, and bowl of water.
Light the green and orange candles
Take the rose and burn the tip of the stem
"Green love and orange strength,
burn the love of me and ________ (lover's name)"
Put the rose in the water
Light the yellow candle
"Yellow power do the deed."
Stick your fingers in the water and put out the candles with your fingers
Tear the petals off the rose.
"Let _________ (lover's name) not hate, but love another and not me."

TO SEPERATE TWO PEOPLE WHO WISH TO BE FREE OF EACH OTHER
Small issues can be handled in a magic circle, whereas larger issues may need a full ritual.
You will need:
Two black candles, a long black ribbon, black gloves, scissors, the cauldron or a fireproof
Bowl containing small amount of alcohol a taper and a lighter to light it a silver bell
To Proceed:
Cleanse and consecrate all items.
Dress the candles with the oil in the manner to send negativity away from you, then light them.
Hold each end of the ribbon and name the ends for the two people to be separated
Pass the silver bell over the altar several times, until you feel you are in tune with the
Universal energies of love and peace. Anger is not a luxury afforded to you in the situation.
Put on the black gloves and say:
"I call upon the energies of Universal balance
I call upon the ancient energies of my people
I call upon the living essence of the Morrigan
Underworld and heaven
Land and sea
I waken these energies unto me.
Witness now that I renounce and sever
Break bonds and connections with ______
By all powers that are One Power
May the great sisters of karma now weave anew
And separate me from you
As I will, so mote it be!"
Cut the ribbon. Say: "It is so." Light the cauldron.
Burn both pieces of ribbon by dipping into the alcohol and carefully lighting with a taper.
Place the ashes and all leanings in a box and keep in case the spell is to be reversed.

GET SOMEONE OUT OF YOUR LIFE
You will need:
red cayenne pepper sea salt matches 1 small candle nine pennies
Empty out two-thirds of the pepper from its bottle. Fill the bottle a third full of sea salt.
Break the heads off the matches and use the heads to fill the jar almost to the top.
Match heads contain sulfur, a magical element used by witches to scatter negative force.
Sea salt is for cleansing and cayenne pepper makes things uncomfortable for people who try to harm you.
Write the name of the person you want away from you on a small piece of paper.
(If you have a signature, even better.) Insert the paper into the jar. Close the lid tightly.
For nine days in a row beginning ten days before the new moon, shake the bottle as
many times a day as you feel inclined to do so. Visualize this person moving away from you.
On the ninth day rub the lid of the jar with the wax of the candle. (Any color is ok but black is best.)
Take the jar to the closest river and throw it in.
Throw nine pennies over your shoulder and don't look back.

SPELL TO LET GO OF ANOTHER
Take a photo of you and your ex-lover depicting a time or event in the past when
the relationship was still good for the both of you. Then cut out the ex-lover's image.
Cast a circle and burn the image while envisioning a hopeful, joyful life without this person.
Do not blame yourself or your ex-lover, nor hold any thoughts of recrimination or revenge while
engaged in this meditation. Continue the projection of your future life for a few minutes.
Bury the ashes in an appropriate place.

TO END LOVE SPELL
Light a purple, dark blue, and black candle and repeat three times:
"Break the spell of love,
For I hath suffered.
May they love me not,
And find love in another ."

TO RID YOURSELF OF AN UNWANTED LOVER
You will need:
- blue candle small bell piece of white paper juice from a freshly squeezed apple white saucer
This spell is more complicated than most, but especially effective.
Friday is the recommended day to work this spell.
First, light a new blue candle (blue being a healing color). Then ring a little bell three times.
On a clean white piece of paper draw a circle to represent the sun.
Also draw a crescent moon, with the curved shape to the left, to represent the waning moon.
Stain the paper by squeezing onto it the juice from an apple. Fold the paper in half, then a quarter.
Fold what you hold into half and a quarter again, imagining as you do so that you are folding up
and containing the love you once shared.
Burn the paper in your candle flame and place the ashes on a clean white saucer.
Dip in your forefinger in the ashes and write the initial of your former lover on your forehead.
Divide the remaining ashes into seven equal parts and evenly sprinkle them into seven pieces of
clean white paper. Fold the seven pieces of paper containing the ashes into seven little envelope
shapes. Avoid spilling the ashes, because by doing so you will disperse the essence of the spell.
Pour a little candle wax over the seal of each parcel. It is most important to think loving
thoughts about your partner as you do so. Bury with love in your garden.

SPELL TO FREEZE SOMEONE OUT OF YOUR LIFE
Spell for relationships gone very bad. If someone keeps hassling you and you're having
trouble getting them out of your life then give this spell a try.
Supplies: 8" yellow candle 8" blue candle 8" gray candle
a cheap knife charcoal heavy-duty safety pin
Location:
You will need to find a place where there is green grass and trees growing in one
direction and the other direction needs to be more barren (such as sand or rocks).
Timing:
Only perform this spell between the hours of twelve midnight and one in the morning.
Start the spell on a Sunday night.
Procedure:
Cut seven notches in each candle.
On the base of the yellow candle engrave your name and birthdate and on the gray candle
engrave the name and birthdate of the person you are trying to get rid of.
Place the blue candle in the middle, the yellow candle on the grassy side and the gray
candle on the barren side. The candles must be placed 24 inches from the blue candle.
In the middle between the blue candle and the gray candle place the knife lying with the
sharp blade facing the gray candle. Surround the gray candle with some charcoal.
Draw a dove with your little finger of the left hand around the
yellow candle. With your left hand light both the yellow candle and the blue candle.
With your right hand light the gray candle. Repeat the following words three times:
"atce atce atce ete el ikaw".
Let all three candles burn one section.
On the next night repeat the same moving the candles another 24 inches apart.
Continue for seven nights in total until the last night you will have one section of each candle.
Bury the gray candle in the ground with charcoal.
Bury knife with blade facing gray candle. Bury blue candle.
Take the yellow candle home and place in bottom draw of your cupboard on white cloth.

TO SEVER THE TIES OF A BAD MARRIAGE/RELATIONSHIP
Severing the ties bound when you took your vows with your S/O can be as simple or as
elaborate as you like. I suggest simply visualizing him/her as you remember him/her from your
wedding day. Visualize a white cord tied first to your waist and then to his/hers.
Next, call out to the God/ess,
We took our oaths freely
Each promising to cherish, love and protect.
By your hand, you broke your oath.
By my hand, our bond is severed.
Visualize cutting the cord between you.
You are no longer psychically bound to him in this life, or the next.

TO END A RELATIONSHIP
Visualizing your lover standing with you in a wooded clearing under a full moon.
Then visualize a white cord tied first to your waist and then to his/hers.
Next, call out to the God/ess:
Once bound together
Through love and understanding
I do now choose
To walk a different path,
To cast off the ties of our union
And to separate our lives.
Bittersweet though our parting be
Let my heart and soul be free.
Visualize yourself untying the cord from your own waist and walking away from the
clearing, leaving him/her behind.

CUTTING THE CORD SPELL
When one has been involved (either Emotionally, Physically or Spiritually) with another
person it can create an 'Etheric Link' that resembles a red cord binding between you.
When the friendship or relationship ends it is often difficult to move on, as you are still
linked to this person. The Cutting of the Cord Spell is ideal in dissolving the bonds
between people allowing them to move on.
You Will Need:
--2 Red Candles, Length of Red Cord
--A photograph of you and your friend or ex (or a picture to represent you both drawn)
--A pair of scissors.
Preparation: Bathe & Cleanse yourself before starting, set out materials, and
Cast a Basic Magickal Circle.
The Spell
Mark the first Candle with your name and the second Candle with the other person's name.
Charge the Candles with Anointing Oil, starting from the center moving
outwards (sending energy out), seeing the person named on the Candle as you anoint it.
Take the first Candle in your hand hold it over your Altar Candle visualizing it
being Charged with energy to do your bidding, then present the Candle to the Altar saying:
As the Goddess gave form and substance to our spirits,
I give form and substance to this candle,
As She named us Her children,
I name this Candle as (insert name).
As this Candle is wax and wick,
So it is also flesh and blood, So Mote it be!
Repeat with second Candle.
Sit in meditation and think of the joy this person brought you, picture your favorite memory.
Visualize the link between your hearts as a thick red cord joining you from heart Chakra to heart Chakra.
Tie an end of the cord to each candle, joining you together, as you are joined in spirit.
Place the photo or picture over the center of the cord saying:
As the Goddess links us in Spirit, I link these forms together,
As above, so below, As within, so without!
Again sit in meditation, and think of the reasons you want to cut all ties to this
person, think about the events that have lead up to this decision. Face any doubts
that you may have and see them for what they are, fear. Know in your heart that the
Goddess wants only the best for you and She wants you to want the best for yourself.
When you are ready visualize yourself telling the other that it is over and that
you are moving on, then see yourself turn and walk away - not looking back!
Cut through the Cord that binds you to each other (as well as through the
picture symbolizing your togetherness) and say:
By my free will, with harm to none,
I sever the cord that binds me to (insert name),
As we once chose to share the road we walked,
Now we choose to walk a different path,
Although we still journey to the same destination,
No longer do our steps move in time you are no longer my friend (or
lover), I release the (insert name) from all ties to me
As I am released from thee, As I do will, so mote it be!
Take the candle, 1/2 the cord and 1/2 the picture (the part representing your ex)
in a heatproof bowl, tip a little 'goodwill incense' over it all, with a little mentholated spirits,
then as you light it say:
As this smoke rises and drifts away,
So do all my bonds to you... So mote it be!
Place 'your' candle on your Altar to burn when you find yourself wishing 'what if'.
Clean up and Close Circle, then bury everything else except your candle.

GOOD RIDDANCE SPELL
Here is another good spell for getting rid of an unwanted suitor.
Take a small square of paper and write on it the name of the annoying would-be lover.
Use black ink for this. Many Gypsies also say that it is best to use one of the old "dip" pens and ink,
rather than a modern ballpoint, but you could experiment. Let the ink dry; don't blot it.
Then light a white candle and burn the piece of paper in its flame while thinking of the person
running away from you. Catch the ashes in something
(burning the paper over an ashtray is a good idea) and carry them out to a hillside (you can do
this by putting them in a small plastic bag, similar). There you must place the ashes on the
upturned palm of your right hand and hold it up, saying:
Winds of the North, East, South and West,
Carry these affections to where they'll be best.
Let her/his heart be open and free,
And let her/his mind be away from me.
Then blow on the ashes so that they scatter to the winds.

TO PART FROM A LOVER
Cut out a heart shaped piece of paper and write your name and the name of your
ex-lover that you want to break up from on it. Tear the heart in half, place the heart
under a lit black candle and say the following:
As I burn this candle and tear this heart
(names of you and your ex -lover) will forever part.
(Say a name of any person you like now (if you like anyone) or name of a
person that he might like...) will forever see
that he/she is the one for me.
Let the spell do it's work and send a new love interest and let the hurt
and pain of parting from come to an end.

SEPARATION POWDER
Chili Powder Cinnamon Galangal Black Pepper Iron Filings Vetivert
Pinch Bitter Aloes or Vetivert
Use when you desire to break any relationship.
Creates animosity between lovers and business associates. Forces an eventual separation.

RELATIONSHIP-ENDING SPELL
Here is a handy spell to end a relationship. You will need to know your astrology symbols.
Get a black piece of paper.
On this black paper at the top of it you want to put the signs for Pluto, the Moon,
and Saturn, on the paper, in black ink, at the top.
At the bottom put a pentagram (five pointed star) upside down, also in black ink.
On one side of the star put your birthday, on the other you put your partner's birthday,
also in black ink.
Burn the paper. As you do so shout "NAI-KAM-MO"
Mail the ashes to the person. (Only do this spell once a week until that person leaves.)

SIMPLE BLACK CANDLE ANTI-LOVE SPELL
Carve the taker's name and the words "GOOD BYE" on a black candle.
Dress it with Uncrossing oil. At its base place a broken or unlinked length of fine chain.
Light the candle and as it burns, have a good cry and say "good bye."
When the candle has burned about half-way, use its flame to set afire a photo or
name-paper of the taker, then extinguish the candle in the ashes of the paper and
throw the whole mess, broken chain and all, away at a crossroads in the dark of the
night or bury it in a graveyard.
Go home and bathe in astringent and pungent protective and mind-clearing herbs such
as eucalyptus, walnut, bay, and the like (e.g. Herb Bath) and get on with your life.

A SPELL TO FALL OUT OF LOVE WITH ONE'S EX
Be sure you want to break the link completely.
This is folk-magic, and it works. It can only be worked in Fall, when the black walnuts are
ready to harvest. Because it is performed naked, in the dark, it is not suitable for everyone.
You will need:
* a piece of paper from a brown paper bag, freshly torn on all four sides
* a small pencil with no eraser on it * matches
* a black candle -- it can be a plain offertory candle, a taper, or a figural candle of a human or a devil.
* black powder incense to which you should add Valerian
Root, Red Pepper, and Mullein Leaves. (If you cannot find
plain black powder incense and those herbs, use an
herb-based mixture containing them, such as Black Arts Incense.)
* nine black walnuts still in their green husks. You will probably have to go into the country
for these -- they are not sold in stores.
* a silver-colored metal bowl.
Place the walnuts in the bowl. Undress at midnight on a night when the moon is dark.
Take all the supplies into your bathroom.
In the dark, with no light, write your ex-lover's name on the piece of paper, and say
[Name of Person],
this is the last time I will write your name!
Light the candle, use the candle to light the incense, look at the name paper and say
[Name of Person],
this is the last time I will see your name!
Fold the paper in half so the name can no longer be seen.
Draw a hot bath and throw the nine black walnuts into it. The water may turn brownish.
Get into the bath with the walnuts. Pour the dark water over your head nine times and each
time you pour it, say:
[Name of Person], I wash you out of my life.
Arise from the bath and pull the plug.
As the water runs out, pick up the candle and hold it over the bath water.
Take the person's name-paper in your other hand and set it on fire with the candle.
As it burns, say:
[Name of Person], I burn you out of my life.
Drop the burning paper into the bath water, wait a brief moment, then plunge the candle
upside down into the bath water to extinguish it while you say:
[Name of Person], I extinguish you.
Do not dry yourself with a towel, only let the air dry you.
When the water has all run out, collect the nine walnuts (and the husk fragments) and
place them back in the bowl. Now, still entirely naked, walk outside carrying the bowl of
walnuts and throw them away at a crossroads or street intersection or, if that is impossible,
throw them against a tree -- but be careful to not drop any pieces of them in
your own yard. As you throw away the walnuts, say:
[Name of Person], you are dead to me
And dead to me you'll always be
Wander the world both near and far
But touch me not, for dead you are!
Carry the empty bowl home without looking back, wash it out, and put it away.
As long as you never write or speak the person's full name again, he or she will remain
out of your life and your former love will be broken.
VARIANT:
Get 9 Walnuts and boil them in 3 quarts of water until the water evaporates down to
1 quart in volume and turns brown. Then place the walnuts and their water in the bowl,
as described above, and proceed as described except that when it comes time to throw
the Black Walnuts into the bath with their husks, throw in the
boiled walnuts with their quart of brown water.

BANISHING A LOVE RITUAL
This spell from New Orleans encourages a love rival to turn his or her attention elsewhere
and is best done on Friday or Saturday night during a waning or New Moon.
Beginning after sundown, gather some raw meat a little past its prime, something "broken",
some angelica, a garlic clove, and a leek. Tie these things together in a cheesecloth bound
by black thread. On the outside paint the letter "X" three times in dragon's blood ink.
Douse the entire charm, known as a gris-gris in New Orleans, in lime juice.
Before dawn, take the charm to your rival's home and toss it onto the lawn saying:
"By this spell, you must find a love that steals your heart and mind.
Turn your heart from my love, and make a new start."

SEPARATION
When we share intimate relationships with people, often we unconsciously take on some of
our partner's traits and visa versa. In a close relationship this can deepen the connection and
allow two people to function and relate more easily as one. However this condition is not
desirable because it ultimately weakens both parties involved. Pieces of your soul become
artificially incorporated into other people and visa versa.
So if the relationship breaks by any circumstance, both parties may feel as though they're
missing parts of themselves, and also are haunted with some of pieces of the other's behaviors,
thinking and emotional patterns, etc. Now, your soul is linked to you no matter where it has
been stretched to. There are always threads leading back to the source which can never
(or only with deliberate effort) be wholly severed. So by breathing with those threads, it is
possible to retract the lost parts of yourself, and release the parts which are not yours to keep.
Do this as follows.

MEDITATION
Locate your center. Reach within and locate what is not you.
Exhale and release this out back into the world.
Reach out and feel the scattered bits of yourself.
Inhale and feel those pieces retract back into your center.
Repeat until ending of meditation. Center yourself again and sit for a minute to relax.
Do this daily until you feel whole again and not psychically attached to any external persons.
You will find that there are far more than just one single person who has bits of you out there,
and far more than just one other person who you've detained within. It's a form of psychic
parasitism that almost all people unconsciously partake in on a continual basis (some
consciously as well). By doing the above exercise you will reconsolidate yourself.
After this has happened you will become better rooted with a much stronger sense of personal
boundaries, and you can thus better protect yourself from future occurrences.

TO SOOTHE A BROKEN HEART
You will need:
--one egg one pink candle rose petals lemon balm honey rose oil (optional)
Take the egg in one hand.
Sit quietly and think about the relationship you have just ended, and your feelings about splitting up.
Allow all your negative feelings, grief, frustration and loneliness to come to the surface.
Cry, howl and bawl if you need to - the end of a relationship is like a death and you should
allow yourself to grieve and not feel ashamed about it.
While thinking about the relationship, take the egg and roll it gently over your face and forehead.
Imagine that the egg is like a sponge which can soak up your grief, your need, and
all the negative emotions which are holding you back and dampening your spirits.
Project all your unhappiness over the relationship into the egg and let it soak up all your negative feelings.
When you feel that the egg has sucked up all your unhappiness and negative feelings over
this broken relationship, take it to a plot of earth - preferably not your own garden - and bury it.
If it must be on your property, bury it as far as possible from your house.
Know that the negative feelings and depression you projected onto the egg are being
absorbed and neutralized by the earth.
Return to your house, preferably to your own bedroom or some place where you spend a lot of time.
Make yourself some lemon balm tea with some of the rose petals, and sweeten it to taste with honey.
Sprinkle the rest of the rose petals around the candle and yourself, if you have enough.
Light the candle. Imagine the warmth of the candle and the scent of the rose petals
combining and filling the room with warmth, sweet rose scent and soft pink light.
Let the pink light and scent fill you with loving warmth and comfortable feelings.
If you have some, anoint your chest just over the heart with a little rose oil.
Sip the lemon balm tea. Say quietly and with conviction:
'Gentle balm, soothe my heart
Bring to me your healing art'.
Imagine yourself surrounded by love and peace, sheltered from discomfort and loneliness.
Know that you deserve love and that you are now free of your previous relationship and
open to a new one. Gaze into the candle flame and imagine yourself happy and healed,
living a joyful and fulfilling life without the person you have just broken up with.

LET HIM OR HER GO SPELL
One egg to seven eggs depending (personally I'd go with seven eggs)
Eggs are fabulous, particularly free-range eggs, which are generally sold in supermarkets today.
Purchase these and at least you won't have those poor tortured chickens on your conscience.
Now, if you are still having lots of trouble getting over someone who you know you should not want
back, go get yourself an egg. Or maybe seven.
On seven consecutive Friday nights (Friday is devoted to Aphrodite, so you'll be asking for her help
here with this spell) draw yourself a lovely long bath, just at the right temperature.
When it's comfy to hop in (again burn a black candle to bathe by-it'll help those "fond"
bittersweet memories that will drift up) take your egg (Which you shouldn't wash prior to this)
and place it very carefully in the bath with you. Now get in and let your mind wander over all
the reasons which affirm that it's best for you and that person who you know is absolutely no
good for you should be apart. Don't get lost in horrible memories, instead gently remind yourself
that you are no longer going to allow anyone to rob you of your self-respect and self-esteem.
You are doing your magic to empower yourself. Do not think about how great it would be to
get with him or her and them dump him or her. If revenge is still your problem, see the above spell.
The egg, symbol, by the way, of the Goddess, is a reminder of our ability to create ourselves
anew, that new life is always within our reach as long as we allow ourselves to be reborn
and let go of the past- particularly if it is damaging us. Contemplate these things and feel
glad and happy that you will soon be embracing the new. Drain the bath- doesn't remove
the egg until all the water has drained and you are safely out. DON'T EAT THE EGG!
Bury it, if you wish, in a place where you be sure it won't be unearthed, or wrap it up in thick
paper, stomp on it (one more chance to get rid of the negative) and chuck it in the bin.
Do this every Friday for seven weeks.
If you still get pangs for what's his face, you may need to do a little work on the astral plane.
Get yourself an egg and roll it gently over your naked body, standing in the moonlight is best.
This will loosen and soften the ties that bind you to thing.

TO END UNWANTED ROMANTIC FEELINGS
Focus your thoughts on the person you want to no longer have feelings for.
Think of all the reasons of yours & traits of theirs that you can, to back up your decision.
Write this person's name on a small slip of paper.
Cross out the name with deliberation. Say:
You no longer hold a special place in my heart.
You are not the right person for me.
I will bury my feelings for you here & make a fresh start.
Bury this bit of paper & all your feelings about this person outside under a waning moon.

GET OVER IT SPELL
Cast this spell on a Saturday, the day symbolizing death and endings.
This spell will enable you to view the relationship as finished and get on with your new life.
Hanging on to the past will itself be a thing of the past.
--1 yellow candle 2 sheets parchment paper or handmade paper green ink
--2 drops essential rose oil 2 drops sandalwood oil a piece of green stone, jade, or green glass
--1 green candle heat-resistant container
Cast a circle of protection. Light the yellow candle and repeat:
"I allow (name of ex-lover) to peacefully leave my life. I am glad that this is so. "
On the piece of parchment, write down all your negative feelings about the ending of the
relationship, all the injustices and wounds you felt you were dealt. Do not hold back.
Let your emotions bleed into the spell (figuratively speaking of course).
Weep or wail if you wish-this is the time for grieving, and take as long as you must.
When you have completed your grieving and calmed yourself, sprinkle the oils over the paper.
Light the green candle and hold the parchment and glass bead over the flame.
Repeat three times:
"Let all fury, anger and despair depart my heart. (Name of ex-lover) is free to leave my life.
I now allow the winds of change to bring my good fortune to me. "
Place the paper and glass (or mineral) into the heat-resistant dish and allow it to burn down into ash.
Feel the pain of the relationship burning away; allow the flames of anger to die down to embers, then ash.
When cool enough to handle, take the glass keepsake to a body of water and throw it into its
depths and do not look back. As an alternative, bury it deep in the earth, and do not look back.
Allow the spell ten days to work.

SPELL TO EASE BROKEN HEART
You will need the following ingredients (be sure to charge them all before you begin):
- Strawberry tea (one bag) -Small wand or stick from a willow tree
- Sea salt -2 pink candles -A mirror One pink drawstring bag
- One quartz crystal A copper penny -A bowl made of china or crystal that is special to you
- 1 teaspoon dried jasmine 1 teaspoon orris-root powder
- 1 tsp. strawberry leaves 1 teaspoon yarrow
- 10 plus drops apple-blossom oil or peach oil 10 plus drops strawberry oil
On a Friday morning or evening (the day sacred to Venus) take a bath in sea salt in
the light of a pink candle. As you dry off and dress, sip the strawberry tea.
Use a dab of strawberry oil as perfume or cologne.
Apply makeup or groom yourself to look your best.
Cast a circle with the willow wand around a table the other ingredients.
Light the second pink candle. Mix all oils and herbs in the bowl.
While you stir look at yourself in the mirror and say aloud:
"Oh, Great Mother Goddess, enclose me in your loving arms
and nurture and bring forth the Goddess within me."
Gaze deeply into the mirror after you have finished mixing the ingredients and say aloud:
"I represent the Great Goddess, Mother of all things.
I shine in the light of the Golden Wings of Isis.
All that is great and loving only belongs to me."
Then put half the mixture in the pink bag and add the penny and crystal.
Carry it with you always [or until you find another love].
Leave the other half of the potion in the bowl, out in a room where you will smell the fragrance.
Repeat this ritual every Friday if necessary.
Needless to say, you should replace the goddess name with one that you attune to.
This spell seems to be written for a woman. However, that does not truly exclude anyone, including you.
As well as calling on the Mother Goddess you can call, as well, the Father God (or Horned One).
You could use something like,
"Great Father God, guide me with your loving will and keep me strong and patient with your wisdom.
Nurture and bring forth the God within me."
"I am the Great Father God, Mentor and Father to all, I shine in the Holy radiant light of Ra.
All that is great and loving, only, belongs to me."
Now, you can call on one or the other, whomever you feel will help you best.
I would think both would be best, but that's just a personal thing.
And if anything written above doesn't appeal to you, change it.
The spell will only work if you feel comfortable with it.
If the words don't appeal, look for a poem, or create your own calling of the GODS.
Remember, not only are you calling the Goddess and God, you ARE the Goddess and God.

GODDESSES YOU COULD CALL UPON:
Aphrodite: Greek; Goddess of passionate, sexual love.
Aphrodite will assist you in pulling loving energy toward yourself.
Aradia: Italian; Queen of the Witches, daughter of Diana.
Aradia is an extremely powerful entity and a protectress of Witches in general.
Artemis: Greek; Goddess of the Moon.
Astarte: Greek; Fertility Goddess.
Whether you wish to bear children or have a magnificent garden, Astarte will assist in your desire.
Demeter: Greek; Earth Mother archetype.
Excellent Goddess where birthing or small children are involved.
Diana: Roman; Moon Goddess and Goddess of the Hunt. Diana is many faceted.
She is seductress (as she enchanted her brother Lucifer to beget Aradia in the form of a cat) as
well as a mother figure for Witches.
Isis: Egyptia; represents the Complete Goddess or the Triple Goddess connotation in one being.
Persephone: Greek; Goddess of the Underworld as well as Harvest. Daughter of Demeter.
Selene: Greek; Goddess of the Moon and Solutions.
Appeal to Selene to bring a logical answer to any problem.
Venus: Roman; Goddess of Love and Romance

GODS YOU COULD CALL UPON:
Adonis: Greek; consort of Aphrodite. Also another name for "lord".
In Phoenician his counterpart is Astarte.
A vegetarian God. Roman counterpart is Venus.
Apollo: Greek and Roman; twin brother of Artemis. God of the Sun, Light and the Arts.
Cernunnos: Celtic; Horned God and consort of the Lady. Also Kernunnos.
Eros: Greek; God of Romance and Passionate Love.
Hymen: Greek; God of Marriage and Commitment. His counterpart is Dionysus.
Luce: Italian; Soulmate and Brother of Diana. Father of Aradia. God of the Sun and Light.
Osiris: Egyptian; counterpart of Isis. Over-all God form including vegetation and after-life.
Pan: Greek; God of Nature and the Woods, Laughter and Passion.
Also music and personal abandon. Of course, you can refer to either the God and/or
Goddess as merely Lord and Lady if it makes you feel more comfortable.

SPELL TO LET GO OF ANOTHER
Take a photo of you and your ex-lover depicting a time or event in the past when
the relationship was still good for the both of you. Then cut out the ex-lover's image.
Cast a circle and burn the image while envisioning a hopeful, joyful life without this person.
Do not blame yourself or your ex-lover, nor hold any thoughts of recrimination or revenge while
engaged in this meditation. Continue the projection of your future life for a few minutes.
Bury the ashes in an appropriate place.

TO HELP OVERCOME A BROKEN RELATIONSHIP
Gather: 1 yellow candle 2 pieces parchment (paper) Green ink
2 drops Carnation oil 2 drops Lilac oil 1 green candle
A green item to be used as a talisman. Heat resistant dish.
Cast a circle. Light the yellow candle saying:
"I light this candle to wash away the pain of a broken relationship
and to send out friendship in love and understanding."
Write on the parchment, using the green ink, all your hurt feelings.
When finished, sprinkle the paper with the oils.
Light the green candle and hold the green talisman and parchment over the flame.
Say three times:
"Let there be love and understanding in (insert both names) relationship.
Let the winds of heaven flow over our problems, and see fit to remove them."
Place the parchment in the dish and burn it with the flame of the green candle.
Scatter the ashes to the wind, and throw the talisman into the ocean, or bury it
away from your home.

9/9/01