Instruction for life


  1. Give people more than they expect and do it cheerfully.
  2. Memorize your favorite poem.
  3. Donít believe all you hear, spend all you have or sleep all you want.
  4. When you say, ďI love you? mean it.
  5. When you say, ďIím sorry? look the person in the eye.
  6. Never laugh at anyoneís dreams.
  7. Believe in love at first sight.
  8. Love deeply and passionately. You might get hurt but itís the only way to live life completely.
  9. In disagreements, fight fairly. No name called.
  10. Donít judge people by their relatives.
  11. Talk slow but think quickly.
  12. When someone asks you a question you donít want to answer, smile and ask, ďwhy do you want to know?"
  13. Remember that great love and great achievements involve great risk.
  14. Call your mom.
  15. When you lose, donít lose the lesson.
  16. Remember the three Rís: Respect for self, Respect for others, Be Responsible for all your actions.
  17. Donít let a little dispute injure a great relationship.
  18. When you realize youíve made a mistake, take immediate steps to correct it.
  19. Smile when picking up the phone. The caller will hear it in your voice.
  20. Marry a man/woman you love to talk to. As you get older, his/her conversational skills will be as important as any other.
  21. Spend sometime alone.
  22. Open your arms to change, but donít let go of your values.
  23. Remember that silence is sometimes the best answer.
  24. Read more books and watch less TV.
  25. Love a good, honorable life. Then when you get older and think back, youíll get to enjoy it a second time.
  26. A loving atmosphere in your home is so important. Do all you can to create a tranquil harmonious home.
  27. In disagreements with loved ones, deal with the current situation. Donít bring up the past.
  28. Share your knowledge. Itís a way to achieve immortality.
  29. Be gentle with the earth.
  30. Never interrupt when you are being flittered.
  31. Mind your own business.
  32. Once a year, go someplace youíve never been before.
  33. If you make a lot of money, put it to use helping others while you are living. That is weatherís greatest satisfaction.
  34. Remember that not getting what you want is sometimes a stroke of luck.
  35. Learn the rules then break some.
  36. Remember that the best relationship is one where your love for each other is greater than your need for each other.
  37. Judge your success by what you had to give up in order to get it.
  38. Remember that your character is your destiny.


Decide to be happy today

To live with what is yours,

Your family, your business,

Your job, your luck.

If you canít have what you like,

Maybe you can like what you have.

Just for today, be kind, cheerful,

Agreeable, responsible, caring, and understanding.

Be your best, dress your best, talk softly,

Look for the bright side of things.

Praise people for what they do and

Donít criticize them for what they cannot do.

If someone does something stupid,

Forgive and forget.

After all, itís just for one day.

Who knows, it might turn out to be a nice day.

What happened, has happened well.

What is happening, is happening well.

What will happen, will happen well.

What of your did and lose?

Why are you crying?

What did you bring along, that which you can lose?

What had you made, for that to be destroyed?

What you took is from here,

What you gave was given here,

What is yours today, will be others tomorrow.

And any others another day.

This change is the rule of the world.